Be aloof unavailable early dating stages
He is what red pillers call “beta” and earlier generations of men called “pussy whipped.” My siblings and I grew up in this dysfunctional household without a solid model for how men (or women) act in healthy relationships.
My brother, who also had a long time crush on a female friend that was not reciprocated, “took the red pill” two years ago.
One of the more vocal subsets of this particular philosophy is known as The Red Pill.
For leaps to and visions of the future, see Futureshadowing.